1. Emotional neediness: You better not tell us to sacrifice our autonomy to deal with your emotions. The worst thing you can do is ask us for your lack of emotional regulation.
2. Clinginess: We expect others to have a sense of autonomy and independence. Needs for excessive reassurance are ridiculous to us
3. Rules: We don’t like rules unless they are logical and make sense.
4. Concern with social standing: We despise when others obsess over how others will see them.
5. Materialism
6. Emotional reasoning
7. Unwillingness to seek out data/relying on anectodal evidence or tradition/close-mindedness: We like to fact check things or see multiple viewpoints…and hold multiple view points simultaneously.
8. Stubbornness: We are open minded. We love to prove ourselves wrong.
9. Stupidity: Intelligence is a core part of how attraction is built for us.. The most beautiful woman in the world could come on to me…but if she’s stupid I’m genuinely not attracted.
10. Machismo. Trying to show how badass you are or how well you can fight.
11. Judgement/criticsm
12. Superficiality
13. Complacency: People who are satisfied with doing the same thing over and over and not challenging ideas or seeking out new experience
We See What Others Cannot
